Having a support system during the decision-making process is critical. Though you alone can make a decision about your unexpected pregnancy, having people in your corner to listen and support you is helpful.
Identifying and navigating your support system can be challenging, especially when people have opinions on what you should do next. That’s where we come in; we’ll help you get the information you need and advocate for yourself.
Keep reading to learn more.
It’s All About Trust
When creating a support system, think about the people you trust and depend on. You may already have one that consists of loved ones like your partner, parents, and closest friends. They might be the ones who provide a listening ear and compassionate presence during this time.
If you don’t have a support system, consider the other people in your life. Do you have a mentor or relative who will stand alongside you as you navigate this process? What qualities are you looking for in a supportive person?
Asking yourself these questions can help you build a foundation as you move forward.
What Boundaries Are in Place?
It’s natural to want to make our loved ones proud or feel encouraged. However, there is no room for pressure when making a pregnancy decision; the option you choose affects your life the most.
You deserve to make a decision without pressure. Don’t let anyone in your support system try to force or intimidate you into making a decision.
If you’re considering abortion, remember that it is a medical procedure with side effects and risks. Without having an ultrasound to confirm your pregnancy, reviewing your health history with a provider, and learning more about this option, you won’t have the information needed to make a confident choice.
The people you care about may try to pressure you into making a specific decision because they’re worried about your future, have strong opinions, or are reflecting on their own experiences. However, don’t be afraid to set boundaries and tell them what they can and cannot do. Those in your support system should respect your ability to decide for yourself.
Gather More Information
You are capable of making a pregnancy decision. We can help support you whatever decision you make.
Sage Women’s Center provides no-charge services like limited obstetric ultrasound (if you qualify) and options education so that you can make an educated decision. All services are offered in a private, loving environment. Whether you’re considering adoption, parenting, or abortion, we’ll help you understand each and prioritize your well-being.
Whether your support system is strong or you need extra resources, we’re here. Schedule an appointment today.
Sage Women’s Center does not provide or refer for abortions.